"Being at the edge of giving up, hating myself, loving the thought of suicide, God led me here. Being here taught me a lot of things. One particular thing I'll never forget in my lifetime is that, God hates it when I talk negatively about myself.
The school of confidence has stretched me, it pushed me out of my shell and I don't want to ever go back. Now that I'm out, I realize how much I've hurt myself. I realize how much time has been wasted. I realize how much opportunity has been lost. I realize how much I hate that place. So many things have changed in the way I view myself and situations and I'm so grateful for the time and encouragement from my coach, the Confidence Doctor.
Thank you, ma’am,"
Lioness Dorcas Ferdinand
Writer, Editor, Student.
"School of Confidence woke up the sleeping lion in me. Because I used to be a very bold & audacious little girl while growing up but I don’t know what happened. Thank you Coach for resurrecting it and never to die again. It pays to invest in yourself especially in areas of your weaknesses. And I'm glad I registered for School of Confidence because it re--awakened my sleeping boldness.
The courses & projects are top notch & so professional like my Coach herself. Coachie is just so phenomenal in every way, she knows her onions so well. All I learnt far outweighed the registration fees. And that's one of the best secrets of copywriting _" perceived value must always be greater than the cost price "
~Lioness Delight Onyedikachi Collins
I started the year 2021 with great intentions. Unlike all the past years, I wrote down all that I hope to achieve this year. This of course was my first time of really writing things down at the start of a new year.
Getting registered in the School of Confidence was also on my personal development list. My mind was really made up about it not because I lacked confidence but because I understand the Value I stand to get in this school. When I talked to my husband about it, he didn't really understand. He said I was already a confident person but when I explained to him all what it is about, he wasted no time at all and I got registered.
It's been an amazing journey and there's one thing I can say "I paid less". The value I've gotten so far is much more than the money I paid. Believe me, in School of Confidence, every part of your life is touched. The way coach Mmesoma Ilechukwu takes it so personal gets me emotional.
She puts her time and everything just to make sure that you get nothing but value. The way she hypes you makes you want to face your fears that very minute. My mindset has really been changed. The interesting part is that the things being taught are things that are practicable.
I'd like to say thank you to SOC for the much value and impact.
Lioness Obioma Peace
Registered Nurse & Writer
"I'm exceptionally endowed with potentials but was under the siege of fear. I may know the solution to a very critical condition but the phobia of Inferiority complex will always not allow me to voice out. Though by mere looking at me, people that deal with me always confess about my uniqueness but self-pity could not allow me to show forth my light. At a time, I realize that I have gone too far to give up and there's no need of limiting myself anymore, I then re-strategized and enrolled for Vita-W Academy, a writing school and I was marveled during the session for confidence.
It seems as if the guest in the person of coachie read my mind. The session was really made for me. I later registered for One-on-one Coaching at School Of Confidence, that's where I witness the whole Rhema. School Of Confidence is really top notch, it woke up the sleeping giant in me. The knowledge perceived really outweighed the cost price. I highly recommend School of Confidence to anyone."
~Lioness Ufele Blessing Chinenye
"Miss Mmesoma Ilechukwu, the Confidence Doctor is a God sent to me, and to the precious others who have passed through the School Of Confidence. I bless the day I registered for this class. The class addressed issues I did not even know I had.
The School of Confidence is not just a place to develop and build confidence. It is a place for addressing your self esteem and self worth, placing the right value on yourself. It is a moulding ground for serious minded people who are intentional about imparting and impacting their generation.
The highlight of the class for me was the bold way the confidence doctor made Jesus the centre of all her teachings. I can not talk about this enough. Confidence at its peak, I tell you. This confidence has become rooted in me. This is grateful me saying long live School of Confidence, long live the Confidence Doctor. This is just the beginning"
~ Lioness Christiana Agboni
"Thank you very much for providing a great service to me in the SOC. You're a wonderful coach and i deeply value the time we've spent together and the progress you have helped me make in my life. Indeed, you reawakened my confidence and brought out the real me. Even when i was doing my project, i put everything you taught me into action and the video was a huge success. I got lots of congratulatory messages even till now and it makes me feel great. I wouldn't have gone this far if not for the courage and support you gave me even when i felt i couldn't continue. Once again, i remain ever grateful to you, coach".
~ Lion Anaeli Samuel
School of Confidence is a school ordained by God.
Since I started the training, the way I see myself changed, the way I carry myself changed. I have really learnt that is the way I see myself that matters,not the way others view me. I have learnt never to give in to self defeat again.
One of the things that I learnt that I am really surprised is that my relationship with God is the first thing to focus on as a confident person.
I see my coach as a teacher that is ready to see that I grow, she tolerated no excuse at all, Miss Mmesoma, thanks for not giving up on me, if you have given up on me, I would not have graduated in this school.
I have learnt to write gratitude journal, in which when I go through it,it boosts my confidence.
It has been an awesome journey so far, it's a process, it's a journey, and it's a call to improve myself more, I continue to see that I grow.
The things learnt in the school has really helped me in communicating with people that have never met with before, and this has really go a long way.
I have noticed some improvements in me since I started this training.
One of the most exceptional thing learnt in this school is that, I am responsible for my life, I must take actions, I must not think of what others will say, while doing something, since I know that what I am doing is right.
It's a call to improvement,
No to excuses again.
Lioness Popoola Yemisi Abosede
My hunger and thirst for Confidence intensified after my experience at the "My Confidence Challenge". "MCC" literally opened me up to exuding confidence but "SOC" deepened it by making me exude lofty confidence. Registering for "SOC'S Basic course" is one of the best decisions I've made this year. I have no regrets at all. It was really an eye-opener. My eyes was opened to a whole lots of things I didn't know before. I was literally soaked in the pool of value😊.
Ranging from learning the differences between self-esteem, self worth, courage, confidence and self-confidence. How it is important to build a solid relationship with God. How putting myself out there irrespective of what people would say builds my confidence. How I should focus more on my strengths rather than my weaknesses. How being grateful can help to intensify my confidence. How it is pertinent to surround myself with good friends. How the meaning of my name can help build my confidence. How crafting affirmations goes a long way. How important it is to develop myself well, live purposefully and lots more. It was indeed a deluge of value.
And to our Phenomenal Coach♥️. It was a great and awesome privilege to learn from a Confidence guru and genius. She made me feel so important and worthy, this itself helped in skyrocketing my confidence. It was an honor to finally have a one-on-one session with her. She is truly an amazing personality with a large and sweet heart.
It was literally an amazing ride with an amazing coach. 🥰🥰
Marvellous Ebunoluwa Oguntoye.
I saw SOC on facebook, read through, and thought this will be good for my son, but when I asked if there was adult session and the result was affirmative. I decided to give it a shot.
I always had this phobia of new places and faces , coupled with anxiety and shyness. I knew there was more in me but i needed that boost.
SOC came through for me, it didnt dissapoint. The coach, firm , friendly and dedicated to help you reach your goal. She had personal tips to help as an individual not a fire brigade , all size fits all approach.
I look forward to advancing further. I am putting my basic confidence to test by attending a personal development course which I have been postponing for two years now . Coach, wait for it. I will be making you proud!! Thanks Coach. You rock!!!
Lioness Margaret Aikins
"Blessed be the day I enrolled in SOC. I cannot quantify the value and I got from SOC. It cuts across all areas of my life.
I'm graduating SOC a happier person with a healthier Self Esteem and a High Self Worth that I so much cherish, I manage my emotions well, I now close deals with my clients confidently and I don't settle for less. My relationship with God has improved greatly.
Graduating to SOC, people kept asking me what I'm doing here since I appeared a very bold person to them. Some friends asked if I'm registering because of the certification. Nevertheless, I did not relent. There was something I was searching for in me and I am glad I found it in SOC. In SOC, the difference is clear!".
~ Lioness Esther Peter Tom
Writer and Self Discovery Coach.
Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria
“Before I enrolled in the school of confidence, I knew deep down within me that there was something I needed to correct as regards my confidence. I wasn’t shy but I wasn’t really confident either. I searched for a point of escape or self-denial and guess what? I found it, the perfect excuse, that I’m an introvert so it doesn’t matter, I’m always gonna be like this and it’s “okay” to be like this because of course that’s what introversion is all about right? I wore this veil for quite some years not until months back where I resolved to try again. I tried watching a lot of YouTube videos, reading some articles and books, following some platforms that talk about confidence on social media and that was how I met the School of Confidence page on Facebook.
I followed the posts of the director and within me I thought “wow!, this might actually be good” I kept following the posts until recently when I saw the post about enrollment into the school of confidence being open. Immediately I saw this, I didn’t hesitate and I asked for directions on how to apply. I was attended to by the director and when I was told the price, it sounded a bit heavy to me despite the stiff opposition from individuals close to me, I made sure I did everything humanly possible in order to enroll because I felt a deep conviction that this is what I’ve been searching for.
I finally got into the class and I was proved right. To cut the whole story short, believe me when I say that this class is one of the best things that has happened to me as regards my personal development. The price attached to it is really low for the value it’s being placed upon and I understand that she’s doing this to help people. Close to two weeks into this class I noticed tremendous improvement in my self and funny enough those parts or those things I knew that I needed to correct but I couldn’t recognize were taught and I was bemused and amused at the same time, honestly and I was like “is it this thing that has been holding me back? I was also taught how to correct them and believe you me, I can now stand on my feet and say I’m a confident individual. The lessons that are taught in this class can help you no matter who you are, provided you follow the instructions of the director, trust me. It’s with great joy that I write this and I enjoin anyone that’s suffering from low-self esteem or any of the indications of lack of confidence to join this class.
Honestly, It’s for your own good though.
Thank you Ma for this opportunity to help me become better and stronger and to move through life as the lion that I am. I’m really grateful. God bless you Ma.”
~Lion Ezenwanne Chukwudi Victor
Student & Writer