Our Story – School Of Confidence

Our Story

I said good morning on a hot afternoon in the interview room.

I was nervous and couldn’t control myself. I had low self esteem! I had zero confidence!

Hi, my name is Mmesoma Ilechukwu and I’m going to share with you my story of how I moved from being timid, shy, afraid and insecure to becoming the highly confident person that I am today.

Few years ago when I was a secondary school student in SS2, my classmates, and some of my teachers and seniors nominated me for the position of Senior Prefect in my School.

I had the capacity to do the job. I was a very bright (and beautiful ) student and I was among the best 3 Art students of my set.

The people that chose me saw all these “potentials” in me. But, guess what happened? I got into the interview room and greeted “Good morning” on a hot afternoon because I was nervous and I lacked the one important ingredient of public speaking, confidence.

And those eyes of the Interview panel?

God! I wanted to run away. I prayed for the earth to open and swallow me.

I could hear my heart beat so loudly I thought it would tear my chest open.

Despite being intelligent and having all these “potentials”, I could not prove myself.
I could not deliver.
I disappointed my classmates and all the people that nominated me.

That night in the hostel, I sobbed my way to sleep. I soaked my pillow with hot tears.

For the next few days, I refused to talk to anyone. Refused to engage in conversations with my friends like I used to.

My face was always swollen. I was battling depression.

During the interview, I was asked the position I wanted and I told them “Deputy Senior Prefect” although I knew fully well what I should go for!

I felt I wasn’t worthy to be the main.

Guess the post I was later given?

Assistant Sanitary Prefect!

It was heartbreaking!

I hated myself the more feeling that I had messed up.

However, I took the post and I did my work with so much zeal and energy.

I even worked more than my main because I was assisting.

So, what exactly happened?

What went wrong was that I could do the job but I had no confidence to communicate my capability to the Interview panel

Even after I left Secondary school, this low self esteem and zero confidence followed me into life

I lost many opportunities and useful relationships because of this one problem.

Opportunities and relationships that would have taken me far in my career by now.

But I lost them and more because of 0% confidence.

Your experience might not be exactly like mine. But you probably have lost so many important things and people because of lack of confidence.

Lack of confidence is the one reason many people do so much yet lack results that are complementary to the kind of energy and work that they put in.

I’ve been there. And it’s not an interesting way to live.

For instance, I used to struggle with charging what I knew my time and business was worth because I felt I wasn’t worthy of such “huge” amounts and rewards.

Again, I lost many valuable and useful relationships, entered into wrong ones, lost life changing opportunities.

I just settled for whatever came my way. I slaved my way through life.

I knew I was not an ordinary lady! However, I wasn’t confident enough to let the world see my awesomeness.

I was merely existing and not living life to the fullest until 2019 when my deliverance came.

I had attended a webinar on Confidence but in the days that followed, I took a lot of Personal Development courses including on Confidence, I did a lot of research to get hacks on how I could build and own a top-notch confidence.

I applied the lessons I learnt and the discoveries I made in my own life and I was literally blown away by the amazing results I got.
I got my confidence level high up, met a lot of wonderful people, formed valuable relationships, got paid what my time and business was worth.

Life became good again

I decided to share my wonderful and life changing discoveries and lessons with the rest of the world, as I am sure there are many people out there who are going through the same fate I passed through prior to 2019.

Being a victim of this problem sometime, I knew all it cost me and I wouldn’t want any other person to experience it. So I decided to help.

School Of Confidence is my best platform to share these hacks.

School Of Confidence has raised so many confident and successful people (otherwise known as lions and lionesses) around the world since its inception in September 2020.

God granted us a kind of supernatural speed that is beyond human intelligence and understanding.

School Of Confidence has helped once suicidal and depressed young people regain their confidence and go on to living the life of their dreams.

School Of Confidence has pushed a lot of society-made introverts out of their shells and into their God-ordained destinies.

I’m talking of people who weren’t naturally introverts but society turned them into introverts. And even the real introverts become Confident even with their nature made them shy, timid insecure, and unsure of who they were.

Most graduates of the School have taken bold steps to do the things they used to fear.

They’re living the life of their dreams now as a result of the one-on-one sessions they had with Coach Mmesoma, the Confidence Doctor.

Attached herein are some of the many transformational testimonials that we got from our students.

If you do not have a low confidence or self esteem issue, but you want more out of life, don’t worry, School Of Confidence has got you covered!

We’ve had confident people sign up for a one-on-one session with The Confidence Doctor and they were blown away by the results they got.

You’ll also see some of these confident people’s testimonials.

I look forward to seeing you in class.

Director,
School of Confidence.

“Before I enrolled in the school of confidence, I knew deep down within me that there was something I needed to correct as regards my confidence. I wasn’t shy but I wasn’t really confident either. I searched for a point of escape or self-denial and guess what? I found it, the perfect excuse, that I’m an introvert so it doesn’t matter, I’m always gonna be like this and it’s “okay” to be like this because of course that’s what introversion is all about right? I wore this veil for quite some years not until months back where I resolved to try again. I tried watching a lot of YouTube videos, reading some articles and books, following some platforms that talk about confidence on social media and that was how I met the School of Confidence page on Facebook.
I followed the posts of the director and within me I thought “wow!, this might actually be good” I kept following the posts until recently when I saw the post about enrollment into the school of confidence being open. Immediately I saw this, I didn’t hesitate and I asked for directions on how to apply. I was attended to by the director and when I was told the price, it sounded a bit heavy to me despite the stiff opposition from individuals close to me, I made sure I did everything humanly possible in order to enroll because I felt a deep conviction that this is what I’ve been searching for.

I finally got into the class and I was proved right. To cut the whole story short, believe me when I say that this class is one of the best things that has happened to me as regards my personal development. The price attached to it is really low for the value it’s being placed upon and I understand that she’s doing this to help people. Close to two weeks into this class I noticed tremendous improvement in my self and funny enough those parts or those things I knew that I needed to correct but I couldn’t recognize were taught and I was bemused and amused at the same time, honestly and I was like “is it this thing that has been holding me back? I was also taught how to correct them and believe you me, I can now stand on my feet and say I’m a confident individual. The lessons that are taught in this class can help you no matter who you are, provided you follow the instructions of the director, trust me. It’s with great joy that I write this and I enjoin anyone that’s suffering from low-self esteem or any of the indications of lack of confidence to join this class.
Honestly, It’s for your own good though.

Thank you Ma for this opportunity to help me become better and stronger and to move through life as the lion that I am. I’m really grateful. God bless you Ma.”

~Lion Ezenwanne Chukwudi Victor
Student & Writer
Nigeria
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